Clients often say to me, “How can I get my dog to pay attention to me?
Why won’t s/he pay attention to me?” How can I build my dog’s
confidence? My dog has some behavioral issues that need to be addressed!
There is a very simple thing that will produce a fast and huge change
in your dog’s behavior — hand feed your dog! Yes, put the food bowl
away for a month and feed all meals by hand! When you hand feed your
dog, you make yourself very important, you can teach bite inhibition and
you will gain your dog’s undivided attention!
Making yourself important to your dog is a good thing. Some call it
being a “leader”. I call it being a good pet parent. Hand feeding is
going to very quickly make your dog understand that without you, he/she
might not get fed! This is a great way to bond with and build a
relationship with your dog. It is especially effective when a dog is
new to your family.
How does hand feeding help with bite inhibition? Your dog should
learn to be careful with his/her mouth. Hand feeding provides you the
perfect opportunity to focus on giving pieces of dry dog food, one or
two at a time, and teaching the command “gentle” or “easy”. If your dog
touches your finger with his/her teeth, pull back, say “ouch” and then
use your calm voice to say “gentle” and then try feeding again. So,
simply by hand feeding your dog, you are teaching soft mouth skills.
It sure does make sense that hand feeding your dog would help get
your dog to pay attention to you, right? Why is that important? Well,
dogs, just like people tend to pay way more attention to the person in
their lives that doles out the rewards. They focus on the person in
their life that is important to them. When you look at the relationship
between you and your dog, and determining who controls the resources,
you can put yourself right at the top of the list of people your dog
needs to survive.
You need to be very important to your dog. This is
very benevolent parenting. The goal here is to be necessary in your
dog’s life, not control that life! None of us want robot dogs, but we
want our dogs to look to use for guidance and for us to be relevant to
our dogs.
So how do you do this? Pick a spot on the floor- it can be
where your dog eats now, or better yet, for socialization purposes, you
can feed him in different areas of the house – even outside! Meals on
wheels is fun….take some kibble with you when you go on a walk or are
out for socialization – “to go” food! Start by handing out the kibble
here and there without asking your dog to do anything.
Make sure NOT to
reward bad behavior. Pay your dog for sitting nicely or for being
polite. Dogs learn by association and will repeat behaviors they get
rewarded for. If you give your dog kibble when s/he is jumping up,
barking, pawing at you, etc., you are rewarding inappropriate behavior.
Ask your dog to stand or sit patiently before you hand feed him/her.
Once the dog has the routine down, start asking him/her to do things for
the food. Sit! Watch me! Down! Shake! Spin! Hand feeding helps with
recall. A dog that is hand fed will almost always come to your hand if
you put it out! Use feeding time to work on the training skills you
learned in class.
It doesn’t have to be just one person in the house that is hand
feeding your dog as long as the food is pre-measured so you don’t over
feed. You will be truly amazed at the bonding and understanding that
kids and dogs have when they hand feed the dog.
Have you ever seen the dogs that never take their eyes off their
owners – always paying attention on walks and when out and about?
Looking for guidance in situations? Hand feeding is a positive way to
accomplish that. Hand feeding is especially beneficial when you bring a
new dog into your home. Your dog will bond to you very quickly when
you are the person with all the resources.
So, put down the food bowl and bond with your dog!
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Saturday, February 20, 2016
Hand Feeding Your Dog
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